Distance Education: Balancing School
With Work And Home Life

Contributed by Jennifer Goldman

Nowadays distance learning offers more than just correspondence courses. Hardworking individuals have a variety of education options from which to choose. Modern distance education choices include various ways to learn at home or work. Methods of distance education span online courses involving computer learning tools, correspondence classes, and home and independent study courses, all of which are designed to accommodate the lifestyle of a person who is both driven in his/her career and devoted to an active family life. Distance learning is so versatile and accommodating, in fact, it can even be done from on the road, during business travel.

Whichever distance education method you choose, in addition to learning course materials, you will have to learn an entirely new skill: how to distribute your time and attention among school and your other responsibilities.

The best way to go about this is to develop a set schedule for studying that does not interfere with your job or impinge on quality time with your family. Fortunately, most distance learning programs are flexible in terms of when and at what pace you learn. So, you can study during your lunch break or in the evenings when you get home. If you’re a single parent and need someone to watch your kids while you’re studying, consider looking into whether your online college has a local physical campus that provides reasonably priced day care for students’ children.

Once you’ve determined at what time of the day and which days of the week you can devote to your studies, let your family and coworkers know that you cannot be disturbed during that period, unless there’s an emergency. Also schedule family time during which you will be not only available but also wholly present and free of preoccupations. You should be able to relax with your family knowing that you’ve completed your school assignments during the allotted time. Exercise self-discipline and stick to the schedule so your loved ones can count on you to be with them at the time you promised. Abiding to your schedule whenever possible will help you prevent conflicts and make it easier for your loved ones to resist disturbing you during your quiet study time. (Later, during family time, you can even share some of what you learned with your family. This will help them understand the value and meaning of your endeavor and make them feel included in something that’s very important to you, rather than alienated by it.)

Also, make sure you schedule a little me time to take short breaks, so you don’t feel burnt out. Treat yourself as well as you would your child or loved ones; don’t become so engrossed that you forget to fuel up with healthy snacks or periodically whet your whistle with juice, water, or other beverages. If you prefer to work uninterrupted for long stretches of time, you can prepare these “supplies” ahead of time, along with any other tools you might need—writing implements, paper, books, etc.—so you have them within arms reach and can still sustain your focus.

Another tool that will ensure your ability to concentrate is a great study space. Make sure you treat yourself to a comfy ergonomic chair. It’s worth the investment since the chair is bound to get many hours of use. If you’re uncomfortable, it will be very difficult for you sit for hours at a time. Consider the chair a part of your education costs. Work in a room that doesn’t have a phone, or turn the volume down on the ringer. Organize your desk in terms of task efficiency. All supplies should be easily accessible. When it comes to virtual learning tools, make sure you have your user names and passwords memorized or close at hand. Place any unnecessary objects out of the way. Don’t forget to personalize your space with a few photos or colorful knickknacks. You want your study spot to be a pleasant place to spend your time, but be careful not to overload the space with distracting clutter. Adjust the room temperature and lighting to comfortable levels to enhance your concentration. Put a “gone studying” sign on the outside of the door if your family is having trouble remembering when you need quiet time. Likewise, you can post your schedule on the door, so everyone in your household knows when it’s time for you to study in silence.

Encourage yourself by keeping track of what you’ve accomplished and rewarding your progress with fun or calming activities.

About the Author:
Jennifer Goldman is a freelance writer, editor, and proofreader living in Denver, Colorado.

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